Emotional fatigue.

Let Mom keep her independence for as long as possible.  She may be frail and hard of hearing but this isn't her choice.  When you are not here, she orders food from the menu, cuts up her own meat and functions quite well.  We know you are tired of all the little things you must do and we do appreciate all of them. When you come to visit, first sigh, and then, with a big smile, come forward. Mom will love you even more...............marge