Yes, no, black,white?

Two important elements are missing and they will make your life fuller and even more complete.  For you black and whiters, fit gray into your thoughts.  It in no way is diminishing.  It just gives you a new perspective.  The second element in accepting may be finding there are choices.  Again, it doesn't diminish but widens your ability to see every choice open to you.  Some would call it 'maybe' and that too is ok.  You could also call it 'pondering'....................marge