Yes, no, black,white?

Two important elements are missing and they will make your life fuller and even more complete.  For you black and whiters, fit gray into your thoughts.  It in no way is diminishing.  It just gives you a new perspective.  The second element in accepting may be finding there are choices.  Again, it doesn't diminish but widens your ability to see every choice open to you.  Some would call it 'maybe' and that too is ok.  You could also call it 'pondering'....................marge

We could win this way!

Hundreds of mini penis men (?) at Virginia's state Capitol can be stopped!  It is so simple!  Remove any and all porta johns and move them to at least 1000 feet from the Capitol.  These men and I use the term loosely, won't have their hands on their 'big' guns, their hands will be elsewhere, assuming they can find 'elsewhere'....................marge

Teens and young people who serve meals at the retirement home

These young people are so far ahead in maturity it never ceases to amaze me.  They've learned not to be overly helpful and pay attention to figure out what the Senior really wants.  I'm a little more agile than some but I sometimes stick my 'helpfulness' in where it is not wanted!  And just let a Senior tell you and they will lol!  So when someone mentions a 'teen' to you, think of these beautiful 'servers' and say thank you!..................marge

The Hippa rule.

It can be so hurtful to people who care about someone and then that person disappears  I live in a  retirement home where most are over 80.  You sit at a dinner table for weeks and become friends.  Suddenly a table partner doesn't show up.  Hippa prevents you from getting any information about your friend.  You can't even send a get well card or make a call to them.  We are not neer do wells trying to steal or make trouble for a friend or their family.  We honestly care!...............marge

Sit at the best table

Do you want to spend some time laughing and remembering all the funny stuff from over the past years?  Then sit only at a senior table in the dining room!  I kid you not!  It's real and humorous and most likely unmatched in laughs.....................marge 

Sadness.

And somewhere men are laughing, and somewhere children shout, but there is no joy in Mudville-mighty Casey has struck out.  Ernest L. Thayer...................marge