Bah humbug...

If you want me to give to your 'cause', you must stop making an important mistake.  I don't like you putting little 'tokens' of your appreciation in the envelope.  No albeit small but 'free' gifts from you please.  You're wasting your money and my time.  Your little 'guilt' gifts don't work.  In fact, I'm insulted to think that you think that is all it takes to get money from me.  Think again.  Its a big turnoff..................................marge