Residents of Retirement homes.

Sadly, outsiders seem to assume that we all need their input to be happy.  We don't.  If I'm slow at ordering off of the menu, that's ok.  If we want your help in getting into the dining room chair, please wait until we ask for it.  I know that is hard because I've been guilty of being 'too helpful'.  Don't show up once or twice a week with plans to make our lives better.  We know where we're at and if we want your input.   Please remember though, we know you love us and our only wish is that you don't try so hard.  Just come and be a good friend or relative, no more...............marge