The inability to know.

 It says a lot about our culture and the raising of boys for many generations. Males, looking at Fraternities, gives one the sense that they really don't understand the lines separating the sexes and the mixture of youth, immaturity and no adult guidance in the frats. Even the girls grew up thinking the boys shenanigans was just a normal part of boy girl relationships. No one told them that certain behavior should not and cannot be accepted. Mind sets of both is a hard thing to change when its all they've known.  We may have to start over, beginning with the parents............marge