My wake, according to marge

Before I die, I want to have a pre-wake.  I want all my friends (alright, just about anyone I can get, but screening will be required) to  speak at said 'wake'.   I  only want to hear good, uplifting  words about all my kindnesses, generosity, comfort to others and intelligence.  Anyone not able to do this need not apply.  I would do the same for you.  Honest......................marge